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In , when Robin's new co-anchor is a woman who acts like a little girl, she is confused as to why men like her so much. Because of this, outside of the missions that may include them working together, Shikamaru would sometimes hang out with Naruto.

Ok I am not going to get dating first fight all the complications and such. Prior to this, texting while on a date was allowed only in the case of family illness or lost cats. In February 2016 she appeared in as one of three si athletes on the cover of the. Having been infected by the virus, Sting falls to the ground, unable to stand. If you are a cat person, be honest about it. I was a little spiteful and told her I was going to go hang out with my ex. He, Sting proudly looks on as Rufus defeats '. Sting is then saved by a group of Fairy tail Mages led by Gajeel.

I am going to see her today, and I'm going to apologize solely for my communication lack of and how I didn't react calmly. I do not see that this is such a big deal but the bf is very upset about this.

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I just had my first argument with my girlfriend of 3 months. She has a long time friend whom she recently dated but broke up with the first week we met. She has been friends with him for over 10 years and dated him sort of out of pity, or so is it from my understanding. She had a concert, and he comes to all of them apparently, and he came to this one. It was my first, and after the show, I felt extremely ignored as she barely talked to me. Just to her parents and that she was going to go hang out with her ex He came the night before, met me, we hung out, I stayed the night, AND it was extremely evident that he was uncomfortable by me and we had already spoken about it. However, it was the lack of excitement for me showing up at her first show, hardly talking to me afterwards, and not even inviting me to part of their 'catching' up. They were in an LDR when I met her, a week later she was single and interested in me. I felt hurt and kind of exploded on her later over text that it was rude to ignore me to hang out with her ex boyfriend and how I felt insignificant. I was a little spiteful and told her I was going to go hang out with my ex. We met in person the next day and talked about it more and I sort of raised my voice. Told her that my emotions should come first before any other man, if I want a kiss after her performance so I'm not insecure about her leaving with another man, it should take priority over not kissing me to not hurt his feelings? I told her that I'm uncomfortable by her friend who is obviously still in love with her and that if he wants to be her friend, then he needs to deal with me being her boyfriend. He needs to be my friend too and that I should be invited to hanging out with them even if it makes him uncomfortable. She said all of this was her awkwardness in the situation, and that she didn't mean to hurt me. That I will come first and that I should have communicated at the end of the show that I needed to talk to her and tell her what I wanted. That she is now looking at me differently do I seem insecure or jealous now? I don't know what that means, but I have this sadness in my stomach that it won't go back to how it was, that she'll break up with me, or that the only take away here is what I did wrong. I mean shouldn't she take extra care when trying to develop a relationship with me while included this long term 'friend'? I use 'friend' because for her, she sees him that way, but he is a pinning fool who over stepped his bounds in a couple regards that made it bothersome to me. But I do really like her and want to overcome it, but I am also annoyed that she know feels more hurt or has twisted this some way to me being the complete bad guy. It was my reaction to a problem that I think is what I did wrong. I could have kept my cool better, but I didn't. The only thing you did wrong was approach this in an aggressive way raising your voice, demanding she give you a kiss etc. Rather than tell her your feelings calmly and give her chance to adjust her actions to accommodate the fact that she's now in a relationship, you went 0-60 in five seconds and basically tried to lay the law down. If I were her and you'd spoken about how you need to always be invited when she sees this guy, he needs to be your friend, you demand her to kiss you in front of him, and raised your voice, I'd worry you had an anger problem or controlling tendencies. You're totally, completely within your right to expect those things, it's blatantly inappropriate for her to be seeing this ex when he's obviously unhappy about you and the fact she won't kiss you around him is the biggest red flag that there are lingering feelings on either side there could possibly be. But, you handled it aggressively and you'll never know now whether she's going to change her behaviours because she cares about you, realises she's in the wrong and wants to protect your new relationship, or whether it's because you frightened her into knowing she had no other options. The better way to handle this would have been to not get into it immediately, give yourself time to calm down, then wait to speak to her in person about this. Calmly explain that while you're together, it's not appropriate for her to be hanging out with this ex alone when there are clearly feelings left, and then leave it at that. See what she says. See if she's willing to prioritise the relationship, whether she has any introspection at all that this isn't okay or whether she's too selfish to see. Either way, her response would have told you a lot about how she views you, and him, and how much she wants your relationship to continue. This way you've backed her into a corner, and made yourself look like an aggressive jerk. The bit about how she's seeing you differently now really stood out to me though, just how aggressive did you get with her for her to be seeing that? When you said you were going to go hang out with your ex, along with the outburst, and the demands, sorry man but all of that from a new partner would have me running for the hills, unless I'd done something like actually cheat. Everyone has different boundaries, in a new relationship it's the time to be talking them out, working out what each person is comfortable with, not blowing your top. You do come across insecure too because your response told her you're extremely threatened by him. The only thing you did wrong was approach this in an aggressive way raising your voice, demanding she give you a kiss etc. Rather than tell her your feelings calmly and give her chance to adjust her actions to accommodate the fact that she's now in a relationship, you went 0-60 in five seconds and basically tried to lay the law down. If I were her and you'd spoken about how you need to always be invited when she sees this guy, he needs to be your friend, you demand her to kiss you in front of him, and raised your voice, I'd worry you had an anger problem or controlling tendencies. You're totally, completely within your right to expect those things, it's blatantly inappropriate for her to be seeing this ex when he's obviously unhappy about you and the fact she won't kiss you around him is the biggest red flag that there are lingering feelings on either side there could possibly be. But, you handled it aggressively and you'll never know now whether she's going to change her behaviours because she cares about you, realises she's in the wrong and wants to protect your new relationship, or whether it's because you frightened her into knowing she had no other options. The better way to handle this would have been to not get into it immediately, give yourself time to calm down, then wait to speak to her in person about this. Calmly explain that while you're together, it's not appropriate for her to be hanging out with this ex alone when there are clearly feelings left, and then leave it at that. See what she says. See if she's willing to prioritise the relationship, whether she has any introspection at all that this isn't okay or whether she's too selfish to see. Either way, her response would have told you a lot about how she views you, and him, and how much she wants your relationship to continue. This way you've backed her into a corner, and made yourself look like an aggressive jerk. The bit about how she's seeing you differently now really stood out to me though, just how aggressive did you get with her for her to be seeing that? When you said you were going to go hang out with your ex, along with the outburst, and the demands, sorry man but all of that from a new partner would have me running for the hills, unless I'd done something like actually cheat. Everyone has different boundaries, in a new relationship it's the time to be talking them out, working out what each person is comfortable with, not blowing your top. You do come across insecure too because your response told her you're extremely threatened by him. She called me out on being spiteful. Which I told her right away she was right and apologized for it. I didn't call her any names. I did cry a little. I told her that I felt like she was more excited that her ex came to her show again than she was for me to come my first time. That I felt like his behavior was inappropriate they had met prior to me meeting him one other weekend, I fully trust her not to cheat but he lied to me, commenting nothing happened but in reality I know he tried to kiss her, she gave him the cheek and corrected his behavior. Then right in front of me, he set on the couch next to her, and put his hand on her leg, she slide away and started snuggling with me immediately, and I didn't say anything because I'm trying to let her handle it. I told her that if it were to happen again, I'd tell him he's not respecting our boundaries and he needs to start. I can see what you mean though, about pushing her in a corner, but I didn't demand a kiss. What I said was something along the lines that she could have acted like she cared I came. That when I chased her down for a hug, she seemed to shy away from the kiss. She said it was because 'she didn't want to hurt his feelings'. So I told her that it doesn't matter, she hurt mine, and my emotions should come first before his. She is very kind and gentle and doesn't want to hurt anyone. That's when I said he needs to learn to deal with me being her boyfriend and that if she wants me to be okay with being his friend and he is truly a friend, then it should be natural that he becomes my friend too. We had talked about moving in together, and that regardless, when I get my own place, I'll invite him up to have dinner with us and I will try to get to know him. I don't know, he seems to be pinning. On to the ex thing, I am in a difficult situation living with my ex, was inbetween jobs, but I finally got that sorted out and started a good paying one and am planning on moving out this month. However, I want away from my ex and nothing to do with her. She wants her ex as a friend. Who told her in front of me that he wanted to give her a back rub, and I told her I was highly uncomfortable by it, but if it was purely platonic, then I'd trust her. So my spiteful question came when I was at home with me Ex, I asked her what our back rub boundaries were. So while I did get aggressive, it was more my inappropriate reaction to being hurt and inability to communicate my issues properly with her being so damn friendly with her ex. That or she is going to think I'm not trusting or insecure because I let her friendship with her ex bother me. I hope I can grow from this with her. She didn't break up with me or anything, but I do want to resolve this so it doesn't continue to fester. She is adamant that I won't tell her who her friends will be and I have never done this in any relationship or this one, just a point to her, maybe an ex has done it so I won't do it. However, I will tell her when I'm uncomfortable by a friend or certain thing. When I look back on it, I think it all stems from a lack of communication. This has disaster written all over it. I didn't realise you still lived with your ex, to be fair that changes quite a lot. It's a bit much to be insisting that she has boundaries with her ex when you're still sharing a house, a bathroom and a lounge with yours. I know things can be tough financially when a relationship ends but most people don't start dating someone new until those ties are severed, it's just not fair on anyone involved. That aside, you're trying too hard to get this guy on side and it's just rewarding your girlfriend and his behaviour, they get to carry on with whatever it is that's going on between them while you're saying that you plan to invite him to dinner and become his friend. This is after he tried to kiss your girlfriend, puts his hand on her leg, and tries to give her a back rub around you!? I have plenty of male friends and let me tell you, not ONCE has any of them given me a backrub. There's no such thing as a platonic backrub between opposite gender friends! If a guy 'friend' or ex tried to kiss me, and I had a new relationship, I'd no longer see that person anymore as they clearly don't respect me, or my relationship. The fact your girlfriend still wants to see him really does speak volumes. But then we're back to the fact that you live with your ex, and even if you're not intimate anymore, your girlfriend still has to sit with the knowledge that every day, every night, you're going home to her. Which is why I think this whole thing is way more hassle than it's worth. Call it off until you have your own place, then see how things are with her and maybe you can rekindle things, but you have to accept that you may not end up back together as it's not fair to ask her to wait and she'd be a fool to do so. To sum up: you live with your ex, and your girlfriend continues to see her ex who clearly still wants to be with her, and lets him buy her material goods to boot. And neither of you can communicate about these issues without getting upset, crying, angry, aggressive. Even her PARENTS are telling you that her ex still wants her and she disrespected you. If that isn't a big enough kick up the arse to let this go and move on to something more healthy I don't know what is. Currently going through something similar myself with my BF of 4 months. I totally agree that the LDR guy previous BF is overstepping his boundaries, the worst part I see in your situation is that she is allowing it, and not considering your feelings. Based on what you wrote, I feel you stated your position perfectly and you don't deserve having that twisted around on you. If you still want the relationship make sure you assess if what is happening is what you can live with for the long term. People don't change because you want them to, or because you love them more. You typically find out exactly what a person is about after the 3 month period of a new relationship. If someone really loves you, they put your feelings first. First let me address the ex issue- I have no support from anyone in my life. I have zero family in this area. It's either I live with her or I would have to had moved 3 states away to stay with my sister. Financially, I was inbetween jobs and my ex was not my ex when I get into this situation. We broke up and I met this new girl out of chance. We weren't even trying to start anything as I was going to be moving again to a new country, but this thing happened then that, and I wound up with a great job in this city. We started as FBuddies, but we found we really liked each other. She was in a poly relationship before and hates jealousy. She isn't jealous at all, and I've thanked her tons with how she was handling me living with my ex. It bothers me more than her. Because of a lot of our differences, She communicates very well. I do too, until I've been emotionally hurt. Then my natural instinct to bottle it up and then to shut that person out of my life kicks in OR I do what I'm not good at and try to handle my emotions. I am the one with bad communication, apparently, not her. She would skip the backrub if I asked her, it was more that I'm trying to not be all jealous about it. We talked some and I'm going to meet her in person again today, so we can resolve it completely. I just want to keep my cool and tell her how I feel uncomfortable about certain aspects of her ex. I do agree that I'm going out of my way to accept him, but I really do feel bad for him, but I want to point out that any friendship with him is a farce if he is harboring hopefully unrequited emotions for her. How can I explain that he bothers me without coming off insecure or jealous? I mean shouldn't I just know I'm better than him I mean, I KNOW I AM but it doesn't change the fact that I find his overstepping boundaries a problem for me. Ok I am not going to get into all the complications and such. Every relationships with have its disagreements and often they lead to fights of some sort. A few things I've found that work: 1. Refrain, at all costs, from blowing your stack: Rarely does anything good every come of it. If you can't stay composed, fight another time. As soon as you break your composure, your ability to reason or accept reason pretty much goes out the window. You see, at that point you are operating out of your limbic brain - which is essentially fight or flight. There is little or no ability to reason in this state. So if you find yourself in that state, step away and cool down. Same goes for her. If you see her in that state, give her some space to cool down. Otherwise, you might as well be talking to a rock. Fight in person, or if you can't, on the phone: Fighting by email or text is like trying to do surgery blind folded and with oven mitts on. Don't focus on right or wrong in a fight: That's pointless as well. Focus on communicating your issue or problem, the impact of that problem and how you would like to have it resolved. Try to be heard and understood. Example do this : She didn't spend that much time with you after her concert, chose to spend more time with her ex and that made you feel hurt and like crap. You would have preferred she not spend time with her ex or at least invited you to join as a couple. In the future, that's what you want - to be included. Example do NOT do this : She insensitive and disrespectful for hanging out with her ex and ignoring you. You see how the second one is all about her being wrong? That you've both had your say, are both heard and understood. You may not have consensus but you both feel fully self expressed. Fighting is kinda like water on a glass shower door. If you squeegee it clean, there will be no spots. If you don't, over time water spots will accumulate and before long you won't be able to see through the glass. That's just like fighting. Not wins the fight. But wins in terms of coming away with a better understanding and better prepared to deal with the situation next time. Thanks guys for pointing out that I'm not crazy. First let me address the ex issue- I have no support from anyone in my life. I have zero family in this area. It's either I live with her or I would have to had moved 3 states away to stay with my sister. Financially, I was inbetween jobs and my ex was not my ex when I get into this situation. We broke up and I met this new girl out of chance. We weren't even trying to start anything as I was going to be moving again to a new country, but this thing happened then that, and I wound up with a great job in this city. We started as FBuddies, but we found we really liked each other. She was in a poly relationship before and hates jealousy. She isn't jealous at all, and I've thanked her tons with how she was handling me living with my ex. It bothers me more than her. Because of a lot of our differences, She communicates very well. I do too, until I've been emotionally hurt. Then my natural instinct to bottle it up and then to shut that person out of my life kicks in OR I do what I'm not good at and try to handle my emotions. I am the one with bad communication, apparently, not her. She would skip the backrub if I asked her, it was more that I'm trying to not be all jealous about it. We talked some and I'm going to meet her in person again today, so we can resolve it completely. I just want to keep my cool and tell her how I feel uncomfortable about certain aspects of her ex. I do agree that I'm going out of my way to accept him, but I really do feel bad for him, but I want to point out that any friendship with him is a farce if he is harboring hopefully unrequited emotions for her. How can I explain that he bothers me without coming off insecure or jealous? I mean shouldn't I just know I'm better than him I mean, I KNOW I AM but it doesn't change the fact that I find his overstepping boundaries a problem for me. You shouldn't have to ask her to skip on the backrub from an ex that recently tried to kiss her and is showering her with material gifts. Sounds like because of how cool she is with you living with your ex, you feel like you have to be similarly understanding and non-jealous in return, is that right? Just because you feel sorry for the guy doesn't mean you should be trying to buddy up to him and include him in your social circle. The guy would have your girlfriend back as his girlfriend and shut you out of the back door in a heartbeat. He's a danger to your relationship, trying to befriend him just makes you look hopelessly beta and unattractive. It seems to me that he's overstepped boundaries to such a degree that 'overstepping boundaries' isn't the issue anymore, their entire relationship is. There comes a point where you stop trying to control how two people interact and put your foot down and expect them not to interact anymore because they've lost that trust. Just tell her that due to his behaviour he clearly sees her as more than a friend and it's not appropriate for her to be seeing him anymore while she's in a relationship with you. And like I said before, leave it at that. She can choose to keep seeing him and end your relationship, or she can take your concerns seriously and I can't think of a person on this board who would argue that it's okay for her to be seeing this guy from what you've told us, other than the complication of you being in the same house as your ex and fix this. It's asserting your boundaries, it's putting your foot down and saying what you will and won't accept in the relationship, that's a positive, attractive thing. If it was 'I don't want you hanging with any male friends' then that's a problem, but this is one specific person who is a snake in the grass and who has disrespected you and your relationship blatantly, right in front of you, it's the right thing to put your foot down over this. I would end it with her. Keep your dignity and be the strong one here. Make her respect you by ending it with her by respecting yourself. I felt belittled in front of your family and your ex. I cannot be in a relationship with someone who says they care about me, then makes me feel this way. I apologize again for raising my voice to you, that was not what I should have done. Her parents were 100% right about how rude that was, and honestly, I bet they wouldn't bat an eye if you left. I'm sure they'll have a nice talk with her after you end it with her so she understands where she screws up. But all in all, respect yourself and be with someone who respects you. This girl isn't it. This is where I see myself now. I am going to see her today, and I'm going to apologize solely for my communication lack of and how I didn't react calmly. Honestly, I think that is her only problem, and I think the second aspect is that I looked jealous. She hates jealousy at all costs coming from an open marriage, they had a lot of struggles with this and I need to have kept my calm and discussed my issue isn't jealousy, but his disrespect for me and our relationship. Then I need to see if she can manage my emotions in the future with him being a 'friend'. Then I'm going to explain my problems with the ex and their boundaries. While I won't restrict their friendship, I will tell her what makes me uncomfortable and ask her upfront if she okay with the new boundaries I am comfortable with no visits, no sharing of lodging unless I'm there, no backrubs, and no more placating his feelings. If she can't, I'll walk. I don't believe in that, and in this context, I am even less concerned because I am better than this dude in all cases. It's more about his disrespect for me that is a problem and the fact she didn't do her job and ensure I felt comfortable with it always. However, thanks everyone for your advices. OP, you stated that she was in a poly relationship before. Is that your background as well? You seem to be trying too hard to be this guy's buddy too.... I'm seeing this a lot online, the tendency for people to not have good crisp boundaries in their relationships and the problems that it causes. Your girlfriend should have established a better boundary with her ex and enforced it. The way she handled it did come across as wish-washy and somewhat non-committed to you. If you have approached it the next day with a cooler head your message would have come across much better, instead, she probably is focusing in on the 'insecure and jealous' packaging instead of the true message that was delivered. OP, you stated that she was in a poly relationship before. Is that your background as well? You seem to be trying too hard to be this guy's buddy too.... Ever read Stranger in a Strange Land? That is something I could believe. Her life has been a open and swinger marriage and a poly relationship. She 'doesn't understand jealousy' but said she could be monogamous without fail. At the end of her marriage, her ex husband forbade her from seeing a couple she was with but wasn't willing to give up any of his ladies. She has a huge issue with telling someone who can be in their lives. She can manage boundaries with them sex, no sex, etc and her husband, but never telling someone who can be a friend. So I don't want to do that. Keep your friend close.... I'd rather be able to observe and discern carefully what is true and what are words. I'm seeing this a lot online, the tendency for people to not have good crisp boundaries in their relationships and the problems that it causes. Your girlfriend should have established a better boundary with her ex and enforced it. The way she handled it did come across as wish-washy and somewhat non-committed to you. If you have approached it the next day with a cooler head your message would have come across much better, instead, she probably is focusing in on the 'insecure and jealous' packaging instead of the true message that was delivered. We talked yesterday again in person. I think you're whole heartedly correct. We talked about the perceived jealousy versus establishing healthy boundaries for our relationship. How I felt we had established boundaries, and this guy doesn't respect them so I no longer trust him and because of that, I expect harsher boundaries and if he crosses them again, she needs to vocalize something or I will. As for the back rub things- I'm still working that one out in my head. I mean I can imagine myself giving a friend a back rub and not even being a problem. I think I have issues with non-platonic backrubs. Ones where there's sexual attraction, desires, or crushes from one or both people. In that case, it makes me uneasy. I do trust her to follow our boundaries and tell me if she does not. I believe she is that kind of person. I just think we're going to have a hard time establishing boundaries. We see the reasonings behind the both but all of our emotions come out based on opposite ones. Meh, relationships are relationships, I'm going to give it a shot still. As for who asked if I am trying to be cool about the ex because she is about mine. I think you're hitting a nail on the head. That is one aspect, but also because I have this since of trust with her. I trust her not to sleep with him. I just don't think people control emotions as well as they'd like, and I also don't want her to be in a strange situation where she'd have to break his heart or mine. She said she'd always break his, she did already, and I should trust in her love for me. I think she's right there. I should trust in her love for me. I have put other girls in that same spot. Then told them to trust me, and even got defensive when they didn't. I think fundamentally it's the right thing to do. I am just weary with this guy, but we set good boundaries with him last night. If he buys her jewelry, anything over 30 bucks, tries to romance her, get handsy, then she shuts it down and all three of us talk about it. On to the ex thing, I am in a difficult situation living with my ex,. I was seeing your side of things until I read this. You have no room to talk about situations involving ex's when you go home to yours every day. What matters is: you do. I don't think either one of you is in the position to lecture the other on your ex's. You both behaved badly. Seems like your representatives have been dismissed...